just where did dionne and those psychic friends get off to anyway?

I have been asked more than once, "If you had known then what you know now, would you still have had children?"
What a question.
Yes, I have twins on the spectrum, one HFA and one AS. Yes I am aware of the statistics on siblings and probabilities, etc. I still wrestle with whether or not our family is complete.
On the good days, "Maybe not!" I boldly declare, almost daring someone to try and talk me out of it.
On the bad days, I swear I will never again be so flip as I was on the last good day and I wearily and more resolutely than ever state,
"I AM DONE!"
At this point we work together fairly well. It would probably be pure hubris to add another cook to the alphabet soup mix, but today was a good day so I say,
Maybe not.